TIPS COMMUNICATION

Main requirements to be able to communicate with only one good. Ie willingness to listen to what opponents say the speech. Of course, not a passive listening, but actively. This means that you give attention. You can comment, feedback, transparency, and also silence. The skills to be active listeners can latih you with the following tips:

1. Ask questions if you have any opponents to speak the speech less clear. This can help you obtain more information, as well as show you for your interest. For example, "I tell more?"

There are some who feel less comfortable if asked, because the question should be submitted with the tender and does not seem like split. Be careful with the question "why". For example, rather than ask, "Why do you take a school night?" Better ask, "Is there something interesting for you to learn there?" For so he can take a night school because every time the first test did not pass the question and you can offend him.

2. Reveal again the conclusion of a statement you hear from it in order to avoid misunderstandings.

Remove the expression of your feelings. Let your opponent see how emotional speech is affected by your words.

3. Avoid the attitude obtrude. Even if you be da opinions or views, you should still specify. Only do this with clear and friendly way.

4. Keep your body language. When talking with opponents to speak, eye contact for the effect of honest and confident. Avoid the lip bite, and other movements that cause the impression you're nervous or do not like talking. Try the body upright postures, with the position of legs and arms in a state of relaxation.

5. Avoid the word "always, must" or "never." Usually the word does not describe the facts and indeed tends to provoke the opponent's defensive attitude talk. Rather said, "this office toilets never cleaned" better say, "What can we do that office toilet is so clean?"

6. Customize your style of communication with each individual.

Remember, no one man in this world the same. Gender, age, culture, region of origin, occupation, work experience, and personality type, only a small part of the factors that affect the communication style of someone.

Recognizing these differences can reduce the risk of misunderstanding and frustration when communicating. People with type ekstrovert are usually happy to monopolize the conversation, always full of initiative. While they are more happy bertipe introvert alone and always think carefully before acting or talking.

7. Give feedback, praise, or support. Make other people know that you appreciate their efforts or achievements. Award or respect is the key in the relationship komuniasi a balanced and mutually supportive.

8. Believe, when you do a course on the tips each week, you undoubtedly will feel the positive changes in social life and career development.